If you’ve been following along with my story in parts 1-4 of this blog series, you know I’ve had some more than a few bumps and bruises along the way over these last 20 months.
I’ve learned a lot.
I’ve had to learn that my work isn’t for everyone. I want everyone to love all that I have to share, to eat it up, to adore it, to be deeply deeply impacted by it.
But the truth is that now that I’m teaching about Coaching and Facilitation Mastery, now that I’m teaching about the skills underneath the skills to move clients through fears and work with their shadows, now that I’m teaching advanced tools for connecting more deeply and authentically with your clients and with yourself… this material is too sophisticated for 90% of the practitioners out there.
Not because it’s hard….but because it’s not flashy like “ how to do marketing funnels” is, it’s not glossy like “how to succeed with FB ads” is, and it’s not surface oriented like “how to make a million” is.
This work is for thoughtful individuals. This work is for individuals who are already pretty amazing at what they do. This work is for individuals who LOVE going deep and figuring out how to create better and better results with their clients. This work is for individuals who are willing to admit that mastery isn’t a destination, but instead a journey.
I’ve had to learn that it’s OK that I speak to a sophisticated audience. I’ve had to own that my work isn’t for everyone.
I’ve also had to accept that because the work I offer is so deep and because I am so committed to being fully present for each client & student that I serve, that I can’t offer it to a million people at a time. I can’t be one of those coaches that has 500 people in a program. My work is more intimate than that.
I will straight up share with you that I haven’t yet mastered any of this. I still sometimes feel pained when I get hate mail or criticized. I still sometimes get insulted and/or self-judgmental when people opt-out, both in my newsletter community or my Facebook community.
I still sometimes get frustrated when I have less engagement than I want. I still sometimes feel a little victim-y that I need to cap my courses at a certain number of participants.
But overall, I feel so lucky. I feel lucky that even with all of this, my programming still sells out. I feel lucky that I get to make an impact in so many people’s lives. I feel lucky that I get to be in my brilliance and use my talent.
I feel lucky that the ripple effect of my work is so big.
And maybe most of all, I feel lucky that I’ve been able to not only endure, but deeply evolve and transform from all of the bumps in the road. I’ve got some battle scars, but I’m a better person and a better leader because of all of it.
I’m grateful for all of it. And I’m grateful for you allowing me to share my story with you. By reading this, you were willing to look behind the curtain and experience deeper truth with me.
And that tells me a lot about you.
If you stand with me. If you stand for Mastery in your work. If you choose to embrace a beginners mind, stay humble, keep learning and expanding your self, your skills and your capacity… will you let me know?
Thank you for being on this journey with me.